bibilical guide
1. First, you must acknowledge the addiction exists. Many who are caught in the trap of addiction will adamantly deny the problem. Click To Tweet He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion. – Proverbs 28:13 2. You must recognize that what you are doing is wrong . Addicts find a way to justify their problem in their mind. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. – I John 2:16 3. You must not blame others – “If my wife/husband were just more affectionate.” … “If women/men were not so seductive.” Adam blamed Eve and she blamed the serpent. Instead, you must begin to take responsibility for your actions. 4. Make yourself accountable to a spiritual authority , perhaps a pastor or mature believer. Everybody needs a “safe” person to share their struggles with. ...